Hey there, lovely readers! Today, I want to talk about something that I've encountered countless times in my journey as a voice coach. It's a common narrative that many aspiring singers and speakers carry with them - the belief that they are somehow different, that they are the exception, and that they can't possibly transform their voice like others can.

I've had so many students come to me and say, "I just don't believe that I can make a change with my voice. Like, sure, other people can, but not me. I couldn't do it. I'm different, I'm the exception."

If you're reading this and nodding your head, if you have this narrative playing on a loop in your mind, I'm here to set the record straight. There is absolutely nothing about you that prevents you from honing your voice. Every single person I've ever worked with, every voice that has ever transformed, started from the very bottom of this journey.

It's completely natural to feel like you're stuck and that your voice will never reach its full potential. Let me tell you, everybody feels that way at some point in their vocal journey. You're not alone in this, and you are definitely not the exception. You can control your voice. You can create a voice that you love. But it takes time and practice.

I believe in you! Stick with it! You can do this, just like everybody else who came before you.

The Journey Begins

Let's break it down. Your voice, just like any other skill, isn't something you start with perfected. It's a journey, a process of growth and development. Remember, even those trans people with voices you love started somewhere.

Think about some of your favourite trans creators. Whether it's Natalie Wynn, Abigail Thorn, or Ryan Cassata, they all had to start somewhere. They faced challenges, hit roadblocks, and struggled to find their unique voice. But they persevered.

The first step to transforming your voice is to understand that you're on a journey. Embrace the fact that there will be ups and downs, but each of those moments contributes to your growth.

Ditch the "I'm the Exception" Mentality

It's time to debunk the myth that you're somehow different from everyone else on this journey. We all have our insecurities and doubts. It's easy to look at successful people and think they have some innate talent that you lack. But the truth is, they had to work for it, just like you.

Nobody is born a master of their craft. Singers, actors, and public speakers all invest countless hours into practice and improvement. They make mistakes, learn from them, and keep going. You can do the same.

Practice, Practice, Practice

You've probably heard the saying, "Practice makes perfect." Well, that's partially true. In reality, practice makes progress. Perfection may be an unattainable goal, but progress is achievable.

Set aside time each day to work on your voice. Whether it's working on your exercises from one of my courses or simply reading out loud, consistent practice is key. Over time, you'll notice improvements, even if they're small at first.

Patience and Perseverance

Transforming your voice is not a quick fix; it's a long-term commitment. Be patient with yourself. Understand that there will be days when you feel frustrated and discouraged. That's okay. It's all part of the journey.

Don't give up when you hit a plateau or when progress seems slow. Keep pushing forward. Your voice will evolve over time, and you'll reach milestones you once thought were impossible.

Seek Guidance and Feedback

Remember, you don't have to embark on this journey alone. Seek guidance from a vocal coach or join a Discord server or subreddit of other people working on their voic. Feedback from experienced individuals can provide invaluable insights and help you identify areas for improvement.

Additionally, record yourself regularly. Listening to your recordings can be eye-opening. It allows you to objectively assess your progress and make necessary adjustments.

Embrace Your Uniqueness

One of the most beautiful aspects of voice transformation is that it's a journey toward discovering your unique sound. You don't need to sound like anyone else. Your voice is a one-of-a-kind instrument.

Embrace your uniqueness and let it shine. Don't compare yourself to others; instead, focus on becoming the more authentic version of yourself. Your voice has the potential to captivate and move people in ways that no one else's can.

Believe in Yourself

As we wrap up this journey of self-discovery and vocal transformation, I want you to remember one thing above all else: Believe in yourself. Believe in your ability to change, to grow, and to create a voice that resonates with you and with others.

Don't let doubt hold you back. You are not the exception; you are a capable, talented individual who can control and shape your voice. It might take time, it might take effort, but the journey is worth it.

In conclusion, if you've ever doubted your ability to transform your voice, let this be the moment you cast those doubts aside. You have the power to shape your voice and create something beautiful. Trust in the journey, embrace your uniqueness, and keep practicing.

I believe in you, and I can't wait to hear the incredible voice that emerges from your dedication and hard work. Stick with it, and remember, you're not alone on this journey. We're all in this together, striving to reach our full vocal potential. So, let's keep singing, speaking, and believing in ourselves, because there's no limit to what we can achieve.